You are asking about a goodnight text for real? Stop seeing this. Showing you his text was just to get you looped in again into his games. Why are you dealing with this? Is it the sex? Find a better replacement. Do you like the drama? A nasty side effect is that you can get your feelings hurt, toughen up and start playing with his feelings. Do you really have time for this? Is you life that dull that you need this the push/pull of this non-relationship? Focus on something productive like a job/career, fitness, decorating your home, going back to school, doing some volunteer wort.

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