Go to small claims court to get your money. If he fails to pay by the court-ordered date, he goes to jail. Nice, huh? I you have a promissory note for the total and have the ability to show how much he has paid not really necessary but it is nice to show the judge you are being as honest as possible. don't worry; I have an ass for an ex. He hid money for two years, leaving me to pay all the bills so he could afford a new apartment, new furniture, and a new woman. I got the better part of the deal. I have a wonderful daughter; I am so very proud of her. I hate the dickhead but we'll not go into that. :) Keep the. There are good men out there but don't date online; the chances of finding a good there are slim to none.