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by reading something before you broach the women want sex dating subject, you have already won half the fight. Its up to you to know your new wife, as far as what stories that cover the subject, would turn her on or not. I'm sure there is something out there for her. just take your time. Perhaps she thinks you are the one that doesn't want to do it in the kitchen while cooking the morning breakfast.