and blinded by it. maybe you are a good guy but at teh end, please stop creating shitty memory for this little boy. you can just raise him as yours free personal ads alberta and let this deadbeat dad (as as the law is not broken) come and go in peripheral. If you this, you can teach him a lot and not how to hate and judge his dad! Trust me this back fire on you as as he is 18 and knows better! if you are aiming to have this kid all to yourself and cut off the dad .not a good way to start a relatinship.