as genuinely as it is thick open minded bbw needed Ipatinga offered. And you might be suprised if you look at your posts, you have judged others too, not just me. When posters respond to OP, judgements are made based on what is written. Happens all the time. As to your advice to yourself, not to read from regular posters that you find "offensive", that of course, is your choice. But, I say, if I didn't read posters that I found questionable, or didn't jibe with my own perspective, I would lose the entire point of forum. Like I said before, it would be very boring. Case in point for me, the Atheist forum, much of what is discussed there I am in agreement with. Boring. For me, when one willingly turns ignorance it is greatest against one's self. I continue to read, and learn, and modify my knowledge and perspective. If you do as you suggest, and ignore simply because what is presented to you because it doesn't agree with your perspective, you do more damage than I could ever do, or even wish upon you (and I don't, I just enjoy a good argument but this one isn't one). you live in interesting times, Das. (Servant of?)