- there ever be a better time? Who knows! Life isn't always the way you planned it would be and sometimes the best things in life can seem like the worst at the time. If you wait around for everything to be perfect, it never be the right time anyways. It's a tough decision that should be made listening to both your practical side and your emotional side. Only you have to live with the outcome of it. Some women I have known seem very unaffected by their abortions and have even told me it was the best thing they ever did. Another of my friends now regret hers and thinks it might have been her only to have. In my opinion, you sound a lot more stable than the thousands of other women that find themselves accidently pregnant. You both have stable jobs and homes (able to provide for a -), even if your relationship fails, the would still have two good parents with stable homes (assuming he seems like the type to be a good parent). Not ideal but still doable. Please don't it from the mentality of it being HIS, it's YOUR too. I was in your position about 8 years ago and chose to keep my with the guy that I had only been dating for 2 months. We both stuck it out and tried to make it work, even had a second accidental pregnancy along the way. Eventually it ended, it was difficult and messy and now I'm a single mom raising two, also difficult and often messy. Still, I don't think either one of us would choose differently could we have seen the future outcome. We still both our very much. They are the greatest mistake I ever made and I sincerely you don't out on something that great happpening in your life.

staying married to someone who resents and hates you fucking others is the answer?? And this is what she married. She can make the changes. You can't make someone want to have sex if they don't want to. If Sexy couples wants casual fucking dating Morton she doesn't like that, time to find a new place. Time to take that economic hit, because she wants the change. Tough shit for her, but she doesn't deserve it all, at his expense, because she's pissed she can't have. I'm all for good solutions. So far the wife has announced she'll be hunting, then her next communication on the subject was the ad. Sorry, that's an epic fail and deserves no further consideration.