I've never seen anyone from any place near Placerville who has posted in Guerneville this Discussion Forum. Discussion Forums are viewable by people around the world, and aren't really helpful for local hookups. Personal ads are specific to local areas, and the place where other guys go to look for someone. -find a local lgbtq resource center, volunteer your time -do things you enjoy, sports team? book club? you meet people who like the same things, that's always a good start. you could also try to find groups of people with similar interests. good luck to you! and don't feel isolated, there are lots of us out here.