I am 26 married and seaparated. I have been married for years and have have been with my wife for 7 years off and on. My wife and I have been living apart for almost a year now and have been apart and got back together before. About a year after we first got together I came to the conclusion that I was bisexual. She was ok with it and encouraged me to explore my sexuality. So I did. I thought for a while I could be but figured out that I definitely prefer women. But in the mean time I was the cause for the split ups and jerked her around simply because I was not sure what I wanted. Now I have done all of the experimenting I needed to know I want her and only her. Unfortunately she is not sure if she wants to risk another try with an "unsure thing" as she puts it. My advice is figure out what you really want before getting into marrige. In the end you lose the one you really if you are indecisive.