I guess if I had to introduce my new bf to my family and friends walking adult swingers and he was a she I'd be concerned too,People can behave as if they are "mature" or tolerant when the situation s for it but the reality for a person in the Top Poster's situation is a hard one and friends and family not be able to understand it any better if the response to the question "Is your lover trans" is "Be mature about it." Anyway,tolerance is not the topic I in this Top Post. Once people get to know a person,their sexuality does not matter at all,especially if said friends and family are not fucking the person.