with a dog. If you've decided you're going to get one, tell him in advance. Show him pictures. Get him used to the idea. don't fight about it. Be your sweet self, while making it clear that you've decided it's time for a dog. It's salesmanship For your sake and the dog's, you want to avoid bringing one home and having to choose between the dog and the. So prepare your husband for the new arrival. And don't buy a dog impulsively just because you found out the stepson has one. Acclimating your husband take a few months but it'll be worth it.