Why does everyone think I'm bib? i Norcatur thought bib was an old guy (sorry bib if you are -) And I keep getting asked who I was before being Yuleegirl. Before I first posted in Difo .i was married. I was being cheated on ..but i thought I was in an awesome marriage. The only time I even used was to sell stuff and look for local estate sales. The only reason I found the divorce forum was to get some info on what to do. BTW It the crap out of me at first. I would just read the posts only and then somebody posted something on cheating .and then I jumped in. So .I'm not bib. I really am female. And until 1 week before Thanksgiving.. I wasnt even thinking about Divorce. it's a US territory and has a functioning government. He wouldn't get past a US airport with an undocumented in his arms. don't buy what he's selling. He sounds like a bully. If you don't know a cop personally then look on your local PD's website for a community resource officer or something like that and get them up to speed with your situation. There is help, you are not alone even if it feels that way at this moment.