I give you a one in ten or less. Oh, I did the go-round shit myself and thought all about 'saving' my marriage. So..as someone who's fought and lost and also won what would I say to you? First don't believe your own press. Those little sins you list, that shit that can't be THAT bad? Um..yeah, it IS that bad and quit fucking letting yourself off the hook somehow. Who are you to say putting up with your shit isn't enough to break your marriage up all on its own? OF COURSE IT IS! Because it IS breaking it up. You're about divorced right now aren't you? I mean you right there staring down the barrel. So OWN it it isn't her problem if she decides it is just too fucking late..ya had your chances. Second you think you need to change some shit? Change it, but not for your marriage, nor your wife change it because it's what you should do anyfuckingway. Because changing some of the fucked up shit you pull make you a better person REGARDLESS of what happens to your marriage. Pull up your pants and get to fucking work..and STICK WITH IT. Third..None of this excuses your wife from fixing her own shit. Its part of the program IF the marriage is to work..but, it is NOT required for you to do what YOU need to do. No tit for tat bullshit no "I'd be a better husband if you would just ." No..you be who you're supposed to fucking be regardless of her actions. And MOST importantly don't think for one second this can't turn on a dime and bite you in the ass. Your 'good intentions' can and in a lot of cases be used against you. USE YOUR EYES, watch for actions that are consistent with statements..if you are hearing one thing and seeing another..be ready to pull the trigger on a divorce. This isn't something you pull the "I don't want the divorce so I'm not filing" card. Deal with reality. Deal with things as they ARE..not what you think they SHOULD be. Take this time to LEARN the laws regarding divorce, understand what the ramifications are and be prepared.

" But since so much time has past and I know I’m not the same Hot wives wants sex Vestal person she once knew, I don’t want to rush anything, I want her and I to be best friends, be able to talk about anything and not to judge each other before anything. Worse case I always her and be there as a friend if she needs me. " But with one caveat, she is not judging you you did not write one bad thing she said or made you feel but you are judging her being childish not "finding herself" which is code word for no direction in life. you have been hanging out 2yrs since you reconnected her after breaking up and childhood friendship . You are seriosly just hurting yourself. You can ask like a you want her to be with you and she say she does not feel that anymore (which is very likely BTW and can be the source of your pain cause you feel this is how she feels about you) or she jump into your lap and you start your life honestly and right away together. There is no reason to say I YOU BUT i want frienship after 2yrs of being friends and after 10 yrs of being in a relationship (albeit -) and still treat her you need to her tonnils! get a grip .

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