So what is your thoughts on that. 41 showing her ass for all the world to. not for artistic reasons, but to attract men with money to spend on her she offers her ass. What is the word as old as the bible( yrs or so), could it be prostitute, or rockstarhair.

If you let this go for 6 YEARS, you allowed it. You gave your silent permission. How to get her back to it? Ask. No, don't whine, no begging, no pleading. "-, I want a blow job." You both need help, obviously. But the whole "I just don't like to do it." means that she clearly sold you a of goods that was false, and you bought it. You hoped after marriage it would get better, when she obviously had the mindset of "Now the ring is on, so I don't have to." Does she HAVE to? No. Her body, her rights. But do you have a right to be sexually happy also? Yes. So you two need professional help to find that middle ground of where she does do it on occasion, just for you, to you. Bring on the open communication, and don't stop until you both get a resolution to work on it.