While I don't agree with someone randomly and casually barebacking, I also don't believe that anyone should be "stigmatized out of existence." Remember that there was a time when most people thought married seeking fuck that we (gays) shouldn't exist. My point was simply that we have enough information about HIV, and how it's spread, to be sensible and use protection. As for the whole tax issue. Our tax money is already being used for things that I don't personally support. We're being naive to think that we can pick and choose where the money goes. Anyone ever heard of