did mention I thought about the old sessions but I have zero to be with the ex bitch want for sex if that makes sense! I guess I should have said it was out of sight out of mind and now it's on my mind again. I'm going to let my wife aware of what was mentioned and where she stands with maybe trying again after I research the roots you suggested and more techniques. Any advice on that from a womans point of view? TKS!!! again for helping me out.