and a couple of drinks lol.. who cares It's we have nude beaches, and i have couples wants flirt a pool that is totally private! so, i only bother with a bathing suit when the are here When it is just me I don't bother. If a neighbor comes from the side through the gate? well, they already know how I swim. I don't care what people or the neighbors or think. if it bugs them, they can stay home. I used to swim in the buff in the rivers up in NH too ice cold Near Zealand . once and a while someone would walk up and over the bluff all I ever did was wave and say hi.

review your youth. spelling is a minor issue and understandable when one is upset. was it really your acting up? minor point but if you can not admit to such we have talked and she wont tell me what she is wanting to participate in. i know she is into flogging. i was rolling things around in my head lastnight and came up with asking her not to physicaly participate until i talk to her friend to ask him more about what goes on and to ask him to to make sure she is watched after for and she dont know this yet but to ask him how i would go about getting into this "lifestyle". i know very little about what goes on with it and would probably be more comfortable with itif i was to be included in it to what is going on. which i have made clear. its almost like she is trying to hide it from me when we should be exploring it together as a couple. i know this is not counsuling forum but i figered its was the best place to start since this is wha the issue is stemming from and i could talk to some people that know more about it than me. i want it to help our relationship not hurt it. i have tryed to get her to show me some things that she likes. what she has i enjoyed too. im just worried about what might happen in the heat of the momment mre than anything. thanks for the advice swinger want sex a minor mistake and accept the ownership of the mistake, i doubt you can your own part of the cause for this breakup. one grows only when one can accept and admit to themselves of their own faults and mistakes they commit. if one can not, what growth is there? we are speaking of growth in maturity right? when you calm down you might reflect on the course of your relationship. don't accept his ranting but look deeper and why or how he perceives things, there are always kernels of truth, if one is willing to take the time to look for them. as in most breakups, not taking into account the totally user type relationships, there are preventable reasons: incompatibility (usually seen early but ignored for various reasons), communication problems, inability to in more than one perspective, etc.. is he really a bad guy for asking for the possibility of fwb? it simply shows his own immaturity as well. what or not so might not fantasize or wish this? those of us not so realize it for what it is and is something one does not throw out there especially after a breakup. it does however show that he is just not into you as a girlfriend. it would be in your best interest, even as hard as it is, to just cut him off completely -at least until after you have mentally moved on.