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Not So Nice Jewish Girl Around?
Still looking for something worth having. I say jewish because I have 2 young children and it is important to me to raise them jewish. I dont want them to be confused by things like christmas instead of hanukah or why isnt XXXX observing passover, etc
Please dont take this as meant to be casual. I just dont want to spend another friday night at home alone so it would be great if I could meet someone who would like to grab a cup of coffee tonight and just chat. Anyway, i may ramble a bit below so I apologize.
What shocks me is that there are so few ads on the women's side compared to the men. I hate to think that all the men's ads are for sex or just full of lies but maybe they are. BUT, what about the women? Is it just that women dont think they can find something of value by posting on CL? It is unfortunately the consensus that the men are not seeking something emotional and the women arent seeking something strictly physical. But, isnt there a happy medium?
Alot of people seem to start their posts with "I cant believe I am doing this".
"At the end of the day, it comes down to this. The way we choose to see ourselves, it limits who we can be. Step outside the box, and you might learn something. Because we are more capable then we imagine. Because we all have it in us to do things we've never done before. Because sometimes we can surprise even ourselves.." -Erica Strange (big bonus points if you know who this is)
Listen, we arent all going to be a match and I can appreciate that. All I would ask is you tell me and I will do the same. I hate unresponded to emails and I am sure you do as well/
I am going to do my best to lay my feelings out as best as possible. You may look at it and say there is too much but realize everyone has their issues but few are willing to put them out right away.
Sorry if this is long but I do hope you read the whole thing. I do get to a point eventually.
I have read the women seeking men side and repeatedly see statements about how hard it is or why dont i get suitable responses, or lots of other things of that sort.
Not sure if the women's side gets as much spam in response to an ad but I think I am averaging like lbs, dark hair and eyes
Guess I should also note here I am a smoker.
I am the divorced dad of 2 children. They are my world and reason for living but I dont get them often enough which kills me. Not sure if there is a correlation but I do have an affinity for single moms.
I am considered attractive but beauty is different to everyone so I guess that is meaningless. Will be happy to send a picture and let you decide for yourself.
am I writing an ad? Great question if I do say so myself. Here it is.....
I am tired of spending so much time alone. I miss having someone to when something good or bad happens. I hate not having someone to text in the middle of the day to just say "hi, im thinking of you". And I loathe going to sleep and waking up alone (although my laptop does keep me company its not the same).
I got divorced 5 yrs ago and I was over it in days of her filing. Please dont think this to mean I didnt care about the marriage. I was completely dedicated to my marriage but as soon as she decided she wanted a divorce she became evil and malicious. The fight still continues because she manipulates the situation using the kids as pawns and thats the only thing I care about, my kids, Yes, this means I have some baggage and I will not apologize for that. I will fight to my last breath for my kids.
I cant tell you why but I have been stagnant as far as committing to a relationship. I know thats a weird way to phrase it but what I mean is I get involved in relationships that just dont go anywhere. I think it is because I knew from the beginning they werent the right one. Its almost comical that I persue these relationships that wont go anywhere. Part of my issue is I try to help and end up trying to be the savior and that never plays out well cause I end up feeling disrespected and used.
Now I think I am ready. My mindset has started to change and I feel I am ready for something real, something equal, something worth holding onto.
If you made it this far I have spilled alot of information out at you but there must be a reason you kept reading. Hopefully that means you will respond cause I am hoping to hear from you.