To start at the begining He left because I could not take anymore and made him leave, we lived like two people that hated each other, the all wittnessed this and it was not good for anyone. Not physical fights, Sexy housewives looking horny sex dating for singles but we couldnt talk without it being nasty, he works hours mandatory 10hr days and then drives 1 hrs each way. He could transfer closer but chooses not to. Up until last year in I worked full time 12hr shifts, full time student, took care of all house hold, plus all the. Last year we decided to build the farm after his accident. My two boys and I lived up here on a generator for two and a half months while we turned it from a hard wood into a working farm that after 11 months was starting to pay for its self. hit and the draught so sells fell. As for his texting the two women one is just a friend, she lives out of state and is happily married. My problem with this is he talk to her about everything but wont me. The other is a woman that hangs with a bunch of the guys he knows as well as knows her, she is very much one of the guys. Again he talk to her about us but wasnt talking to me. And as for me doing it on my own, yes part is financially, also we have a huge farm of about that I take care of as well as still going through our stuff from the move, all while still going to school full time again. The financial issue is I had over $ . brought into this relationship and when it was spent it was mutually done and agreed he would do the majority of finacial supporting while I went back to school and now built the farm. I do not believe it is fair of him to want me to shoulder the entire farm, financially, working it alone, and building it, as well as finishing unpacking our stuff from the move all alone while he is gone a year and at the end come back like it is nothing. Out of anger he closed all our bank accounts even my student checking where my student was to have been deposited. He did not stop and think and is very sorry now but that does not help me when I have a 15 yr old to support with no money. I have ways to support myself now but I dont think it is right to do it all myself and then in a year he comes back as if he has a full share in the feel if he wants to retain his share he should do something to contribute to it over the next year.