"what i thought about doing a at a bike rally this weekend" You answered: "my immediate thought was how bad last year was for I know someone who has put on a lot of pounds since she started seeing someone who is now her fiance. I understand habits can change when you fall in, and that people do gain weight during marriage. I'm wondering, though, if really there isn't some underlying unhappiness that would cause people to gain weight from settling in a relationship. Is it really about just not having to look anymore? How can you be really happy and gain all that weight? sexy want group sex me." So you thought it sucked. Okay. "i didnt feel comfortable with my wife having to stay their at a fairground sleeping in the truck." Well that is on you, not her. The truck has locks, and she is a big girl and can apparently add and subtract all on her own, so sleeping in a truck is allowed. She can own farm and vote too. Surprise! You felt alright about it last year, so the fact you suddenly aren't now is YOUR problem. So now we get to the meat of the article: Apparently she went to the anyway (good for her) and then she got drunk and wouldn't/didn't feel like answering to your excessive s. You chose to go and drive where she was and most likely acting like an ass because how dare she A) get drunk and B) not answer her phone to your every. Yet you left your at home alone and unsupervised. One wonders how legal that was Issues? Yeah, you got issues. Her issue is with your overbearing and control issues. You have a problem and I didn't a whole lot of you offering a viable solution. She went and was making money. She was alone without having to supervise the so she *gosh* tied one on. She wasn't driving, she was sleeping on the lot. Not a big deal. She didn't answer the phone? OMG, Call the Marines. If you can't go a night without a , maybe you need to re-evaluate your place in the universe. Hint: It doesn't revolve around you. I have been to those fests. I know what it is like to work them. Its, hot and at the end of the night getting buzzed and passing out is acceptable since you aren't driving. After a day of crushing amounts of people, being alone and not answering the EVER RINGING PHONE is understandable. For fucks sake, you could go one night without talking to her. Yeah, you got issues and "going down on her" isn't the solution to all of life's problems.