So, I have a happy relationship of 10 love in willingdon months. We live together. He is great. My boyfriend is an IT guy who blogs constantly. He also loves to check out funny, gross, and perverted pictures online. Every other picture or video is porn. I have nothing against porn, in fact, I it and watch it with him. Sometimes, his obsessive pic-finding habit annoys me. Sometimes, I feel insecure and just recently I feel it's unfair. I find it hard to be a saint in our relationship while he is glued to yet another perverted picture or video. I know this is stupid, but I just don't know how to resolve these feelings. Every week, I go out with my girlfriend and guys compliment me, passively hit on me. I laugh them off. But, recently I met a friend of a friend. Very nice and very cute, a recent transplant from out of town. We immediately had great conversation and he seemed very chivalrous. I am never more than friendly and funny. We have these vibes that you just can't ignore. But, I do. So, I would really hate to "punish" my boyfriend for his naughty, compulsive behavior. But, after you brush off so flirtations it's hard. A flirtation for a naughty behavior SEEMS like a fair trade-off. I know all the married women like my mother tell me "boys be boys" and I should be happy because it could be worse. Is that really how "happily" attached women think?