Your usual route Irrational Fears Run Amok couples wants flirt "He received a text message from a woman going through divorce who is probably trying to flirt with/steal him away from me ." Your new route Rational Reframing (., just the facts) "He received a text message from a woman going through a divorce." "He claims to have nothing to hide and told me who she is." "Before we were even exclusive, he shared other text messages with me and explained who those women were to him." My point is, focus on facts and thoughts, rather than feelings and fantasies. Instead of letting your emotions run ripshod over your thoughts and lead you to irrational emotional-based actions, you'd be better off allowing your rational thoughts to temper your emotions so you can act rationally. His transparent and honest act of showing you text messages and sharing who they were from/what they meant did not put you on guard and spark your jealousy. YOU put yourself on guard and sparked your own jealousy because you're afraid of the risks of being hurt. We all have such fears, but it seems your fears have you. If you can't refrain from letting your fears own you in order to act with, then you are not ready to be in a relationship.

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