i figured I could ask this in the Kink forum but might get a Wife want sex free sex chats more reasonable/representable response from this forum. My wife and I have been together for 12 years, married for 7. We have a few and like most couple the sex has been up in down in terms of frequency. Lately we have been having sex 2 or 3 times a week which has been great. We we have sex this often our relationship is always smooth in other areas as well. When we do have sex it goes one of two ways: 1. kinda romantic. kissing foreplay (not too much oral she doesn't really like it more with fingers and hands) and then missionary type sex till I cum. 2. more. kissing, fingering, sometimes she go down on me for a while, then we break out her vibrator and use that on her clit till she cums, then I have sex with her while she continues to use the vib. she really only cums in this scenario, it is hard for her to come with penetration alone. I have been very happy with either of these types of sex but I am hoping to broaden out what we do in the bedroom. She has a very hard time talking about sex at anytime. She was a virgin when we met and it took a lot of work for her to be comfortable with a vibrator (now it is her best friend). I was wondering if any couples have good advice at how to talk about or start talking about other fantasies we might both have. I have no intention of pressuring her, but I feel like there is more she would like to do (an I would like to do too). any thoughts/ suggestions would be appreciated