it sucks that he is not into you, and that he does not think your sex Single couple looking dating swinging couples life is that great! some men like to get a woman off before we attempt our own pleasure, i like to know that she has been taken care of, it takes the pressure off of me. but, 2, wow. there are a few reasons this could be happening. 1, boys, when, masterbate. however it is usually a secret thing at that age and boys flex their kagle muscle to achieve orgasm quicker. if a person does this enough they tend to be really quick in the sack. 2, maybe he is not used to vaginal sex, maybe his last girlfriend only liked oral sex and he is not used to vaginal sex. or 3, you are really hot, and he cannot control himself, there are a few techniques he and you can perform. SLOWING THE PACE As it sounds, sometimes all it takes is slowing your penetration pace inorder to get back your composure. This also helps you settle into another rhythm. This method is least likely to interrupt your girl's progression to orgasm. LIMITING THE DEPTH Changing the depth of penetration is a simple technique that is still highly effective. This is generally a good idea to mix in every once in a while even if you aren't on the brink, as the motion of it is irresistibly tantalizing for your partner, and inevitably lead to increased excitement on her part. COMPLETE STOP INSIDE This is a defensive technique. You have gotten a little too far, and if you aren't careful, you could begin the irreversible countdown to ejaculation at any moment. Thrust all the way inside so that your pubic bone is pressing up against her. Make sure that you maintain contact even if she starts to her hips back and forth. You want to minimize friction as best you can. If possible, you can grind in a circular motion to stimulate her clitoris, so as to maintain her heightened levels of excitement. TEMPORARY CESSATION A last ditch effort. This should be avoided if possible, but sometimes, it's the last option you got. Pull out until only the tip of your penis is inserted in her vagina. The cool air should help cool you down. Pretend that you are teasing her. When you start to gain control, test the waters with a few shallow strokes before you dive back in.