about something that's often subject to change is a wise thing to do for starters. If they get super serious super fast or she's gushes about from the very start then sure bring it up in a very serious conversation Local women wants flirt amateur women as the big ugly DEAL BREAKER. My husband and I went back and forth for like the first 10 years or so of our marriage before we finally came to the conclusion that we really weren't all that up for. Like I said people change their minds ALL the time. And why bother to answer? Simple. Unless he has some serious reason family health history etc. I'd advise against making what can sometimes be an irreversible decision he might regret later. Anyway, why don't you take a rest. That heavy "- of the forum" crown is making you kinda cranky.