I am trasferred about from my Maple mount KY adult personals current home. I am 40 and wife 36 and have two boys 10,5. My wife always wanted to stay alone, but getting paid by me. For her "winning in life" is to 'extract' things and money from me and others. I get my emotional energy from my, so she holds on to them, because she knows that out of concern for my, I keep paying her. Anyways, now I am here few hundred away from home while wife has put her foot down saying she won't come (and not giving any plan on where she live and how she take care of. She wnats me to set her up and then send money so she could enjoy "freedom". In a way it is good, since living with her is stressful, as she indulges in brinkmanship and bad mouthing. On the otherhand I be deprived of very important emotional replenishment from my and family. I can't seem to decide between the trade offs in this situation.