she's acting like a spoiled brat. This entire argument is immature and pointless. Giving in to her little tantrum isn't going to just a good fun fuck fix the behavior. I know her wants/needs and she knows mine and they are incompatible and she is unwilling to compromise. Basiy I drove back in a shitstorm to be at work on Monday with the intentions of returning to her for New Years. But the weather isn't cooperating and it might be a very difficult drive on Wednesday evening. So was going to hold out for Thursday late morning when the drive would hopefully be less difficult, but she doesn't want me driving on New Years and it would be dangerous and I wouldn't be in the best of moods that evening. Its ridiculous. I agree I sound just as immature as she does at this point. But, I'm not going to allow her to throw the temper tantrum of a little 5 year old brat and then give into it. It doesn't work that way.