I’m going to take another spin this. You have already said you’ve gone down the “make me pretty” path with little lasting effect. So maybe you local horny girls in Bari luvs schipperkes need to turn your energy outwards and wait for a reflection. Get to work on the house, make it a place you and hubby would be proud of. Try to once again court your husband. Yes, I know you WANT it to be the other way around, but for reasons unknown it’s not happening. So unless you want to go to the big department and try to pound on hubby to get what you want, maybe you can set the example. This IS something well within your power and in respects it can be very productive energy. By courting him I mean; present a home that reflects your image. Set a special table when meals are prepared. Take the time to dress for him. Bring him a drink and a kiss now and then. Ask him out to a movie and a soda. Go out for a beer, dress to the 9s and surprise him, be sexy. Somehow I feel that if he is a good, the seeds of caring sprout once again and you get the attention you’re so desperately in need of. This is a man’s point of view. Good luck