You screw a guy (a few times) whom you think is actually interesting. He has the temerity to not nsa business women need discretion only become a little attached to you but also show you how much he likes you (in the only way he knows how) by giving you attention. Suddenly, you are no longer attracted to him? What the hell was he supposed to do? Treat you like shit? Would that have gotten you all hot and bothered? Newsflash: your past relationship has NOTHING to do with your relationship with this guy. Judge this guy ONLY in the light of his own merits, not in the light of your recently ended LTR. Get your head out of your ass, or you a great opportunity. Nevermind. That never happen. You've already made up your mind. I'm sure another asshole fall into your life and treat you like dirt, which, I guess, is what turns you on.