Sorrt couldn't help myself. After I heard the term polyamory I kind looked around to what it was and even looked on the poly forum to how those who were in that sort of relationship felt. On that forum questions like I asked you immediately set the forum into a defensive mode and went unanswered. I appreciate you taking time to answer them. "Let's, you are definitely thinking about a number of considerations with regard to opening up a relationship," Blame it on a mind that never quits churning even while working at mindless tasks lol. I like most was brought up where manogomy (have no clue how to spell that) was the norm and being the jealous type dont think a polyamorious relationship would work for me. But as I said I am learning to accept others sexuality as I explore my own. Part of acceptance is knowledge and these just seemed to be some hurdles that wound come up.