I guess that's a good reason to make it a priority again it was important before because I Olmitz thought I was getting married to someone but a lot has come up and we're waiting on getting married so I guess I'll start the process again. Hey, I'd find out if he was dead since I'm having his local sheriff's department serve him I'd also stock up her kitchen now, and every couple of weeks, with plenty of easy things to prepare (canned soups and stews, etc), and breads in the refrigerator so they keep better, and put the packaged foods and suitable implements/dishes/saucepans at levels she can mostly reach from the wheelchair. When she gets sick and tired of whatever you stock up for her, she'll find some other way to manage, like ing the local market or pizzeria for deliveries. But at least she won't starve in the meantime.