Weekend was really nice. We visited a good friend of ours in the city, Single want nsa Iowa City and had a delicious Burmese dinner. Then, we checked out a really cool Hawaiian coffee shop and listened to Hawaiian music and enjoyed some impromptu hula performances. Yesterday, had a great brunch with another friend of ours, and then I with our church choir to record a demo CD for the director (he wrote some original church music). Good fun without getting into trouble ; )

My husband and I have been together for Town of Pines 11 years married for 8 and have a 6 year old. He left me at the end of last year and came back at the end of October. I was a mess the whole time he was gone, but tried staying strong for my. My friends convinced me to attend a Halloween party at a local bar, and an old (mutual) friend of ours was there and we fooled around (no sex) that night. I came clean to my husband when he came home, because I don't want a marriage based on lies. He hit the roof. NOW 4 months later, he is now saying that he "loves me but isn't IN with me." When I asked him if he was leaving again, he said he wouldn't leave. When I asked him very seriously if he wanted a divorce, he said he wouldn't divorce me because his (religious) parents would hate him. So, basiy, he stay with me to save-face. I told him that I am happy, when he is happy, and that I am IN with him. He said that I'm a great/awesome wife, but when men are in with their wives, they don't think about cheating, etc. I am crushed. I know I deserve and happiness, but my is head-over-heels for his dad. Has anyone ever been through this sort of situation? Thanks "No Personal Ads Please" is the Rule of this forum. There is a "Personals" section of. That is where the ad should go. Or use another site like Adult Friend Finder, , Collarme, etc. Placing an ad here is ineffectual, as the forums are not local, they are global. The odds of someone local to you, who is interested in your ad is miniscule at best. Also, personal ads just get in the way of the purpose of the forum, which is discussion of BDSM/kink. Also, I suggest joining. It is free. It is a great resource to find local kink groups and connect with the kink community in your area. Good luck.