bears the responsibility for breaking his vows. no one is saying that he doesn't. that much is obvious. Wife seeking hot sex TX Houston 77007 but the woman CHOOSE to have sex with a married. that makes her guilty of doing something stupid and that lacks integrity. just b/c she wasn't the married one, doesn't absolve her of doing something wrong too. more importantly though, this woman is angry with the married, for not leaving his wife and causing her emotional pain, and is feeling childishly vengeful towards him and the wife. WTF? most moderately intelligent adults know that getting involved with a married person is stupid, wrong, and typiy result in heartbreak or pain. so for her to completely blame him, while she chose to have a relationship with him is stupid and doesn't make any sense. wanting revenge on him, makes her seem crazy and unable to take any responsibility for her choices, actions, and their consequences. but no one on this thread is saying that the married is not also responsible. however, unless he lied about being married or hid that information, she should have known what she was getting into and that it would end badly.