cheater's behavior shows he's trustworthy again, you can learn to get over the hurt. However, in your case, he is NOT showing remorse and his boomerang effect of blaming you for things is doing worse adding to the hurt instead Wife want nsa OK Elmore city 73035 of healing it. Plus, he's an alcoholic plus, he got "caught," not "confessed." Can I ask: what POSITIVE effect does this provide in your life? Nothing is set in stone about marriage and infidelity is definitely a viable reason to part ways, regardless of. You should decide where your path is leading to in YOUR life, and if your husband has any future in that direction. Would you even want to have him join you? I never would have believed it as a woman, but in my own experience and reading/hearing about countless others, I've learned that over time, couples can grow apart. They evolve during life and maturity and not always in a parallel path. I shake my head when I "convenience" couples stay together when they're miserable in each other's company. Oh, and way to be a role model for your -: if you accept that he can cheat and then do the blame-game with you, your think that behavior is normal and might repeat it in THEIR relationships. Something to consider.