I've been with my guy for a year and a half. We live together. My problem is that I'm a Milf dating in Terreton touchy-feely person, physiy. I like to cuddle, I to hug, and I'm sexual. Meaning not just intercourse, but flirty talk, squeezes, groping, etc. My guy is not. He was brought up in a more conservative milieu. I was brought up in a more free, creative atmosphere. I have explained this to him, saying "I am a touchy feely person, I it when you touch me, I sometimes need to be touched more." To which he responds, "I am not going to change. I'm not flexible." Although, he does begin to touch me more and that lasts a couple days, and then it tapers down again. As for sex, it's really sweet, but I wish that he'd be more forceful, passionate, etc. Like I wish he'd grab me and kiss me with passion. As it is he's very gentle and slow. Which is nice, but sometimes a girl just wants to be kind of "taken". When I bring this up, in a neutral atmosphere, he says he feels "pressure" to change. I tell him I'm not asking him to change fundamentally, just communicating my needs. Once he even said he feels "emasculated"! After he said that, I no longer initiated sex. Now we only have sex if he initiates. I walk around feeling horny, and just deal. I guess my question is, is there other language/action that you think would be more conducive to getting more physical contact and / or sex? Or do I have to just accept that this is what it is, and "take the bad with the good"?

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