My brother is having a lawyer friend send a letter this week telling her that she has to release the money. My problem now is that the estate owes me for my services over the last 6 years and married naked women from Minot she refuses to recognize any of these. For most of this time, I was unable to work elsewhere because my duties with my father and the estate took up too much time. I had planned to get a job when my last daughter graduated and had already applied for several. My father had his stroke 5 days after my daughter graduated. I lived with him to take care of him for 6 months. I was offered all the jobs I had applied for but had to turn them down. My sister told me that I would be reimbursed from the estate to make up for this. I took care of him for 6 months. I served as POA for 4 years working 40+ hours a week handling all the problems including fights with Vet orgs to get his benefits. They have to requalify every 3 months. I also constantly did battle with his term care insurance and hauled him to all his dr. appts. and managed his 14 prescriptions. Not easy- he was 6'5" and weighed over lbs. in a wheelchair. I also handled caregivers- hiring, paychecks and timesheets. I am also supposed to be reimbursed for executor duties and also all the physical labor I put in over the last 2 years because I couldn't afford to hire anyone to do it. He had a nice house in a good neighborhood but very little maint. done after Mom died 29 yrs. ago. I rehabbed, painted, cleaned, a 3, sq. ft. house, 3, sq. ft. barn and acre of land by myself. My father never threw away anything for his entire 87 yrs. My sister refuses to reimburse me for any of this even though I spent more than 60 hrs. a week every week for 2 yrs.