would be all that open to a heavy BDSM scene. You Odell might be better off getting involved in your local kink community. In any case, you can still contact the people at the club to get info on parties and the people who host them. It's ed networking. "I'll be delighted to fuck your brains out if I don't have to spend any money or exert any effort to do so. Otherwise, you're good for an ego boost or sexy videocam session or phone sex now and then between local girls."