and now he is sulking and so she is doing all the work in hopes he stop pouting like a 3 amateur wants hot sex year old. When she should be ing him on his behavior instead!! He is a grown adult and made the choice to parent this too. He is responsible for the choices he makes and needs to own his part in this. He is not that helpless victim who was foreced into parenting!! To become a parent there are a lot of hoops to jump through and he jump through them so he needs to own that. This poor has had a really hard life so far and now her forever family might not be forever that just breaks my heart!!