way thats why I usually chatted with my mom about situations like this I this as turning into a funny story if told properly it should go in one of my daughters memory books I like to include stories where its like this is an unhappy experience losing a toy on a roof, that when told in the future, is just a funny story that puts me and/or her dad in a quirky funny and amusing light It humanizes us, and teaches her to find the fun in every situation. My mom used to focus on finding the good and finding the fun.. or funny in any situation. Life can be HARD sometimes. My mom got a birthday cake where the baker used salt instead of sugar one year its one of our favorite stories, because we made it FUNNY, instead of tragic. Thats all I wanted to do with this story. Cancel the fucking date. Right away. You gave a stranger Mature looking love get a hooker your address and nobody even knows he's going to show up? Oh, he claims to be on the up and up. Yeah, there aren't alot of serial killers who just say outright, "Let's meet at your house so I can chop you into little pieces." There's bad judgment, there's really bad judgment, and there's just abject stupidity. Even if this guy isn't the dangerous type, if you keep meeting guys in that manner, then it's just a matter of time before you become a statistic. Use a bit of common sense.