got married. Like I said, my grandpa died, he was in the hospital for a month. we had to help out the whole family. He still had a business, so we were all pitching in, and hubby really stepped up to bat. His looking for a job and our finances went to the back burner. we have had nothing but one stressful thing after the other come up in the last 2 months. We got another dog to help our anxious boxer, and he's turned into a maniac, attacking the new dog, when he never had that type of behavior before we aren't having, so we had gotten really attached to the boxer, and now we have to rehome him, and he's still living with us, and I'm he's going to turn on us. It's really sad. It's been crazy. He hasn't had a whole lot of time, but he has had time and he screwed up with the bank. He needs some direction, and I need help communicating with him. Thanks for being so judgemental.