This just screams sexist to me. This 'I need a lady wants flirt to help me' attitude does us all a disservice. 'All women should have' roadside assistance, how about all DRIVERS should have roadside assistance? You don't think men ever get hit on the side of the road changing a flat? Having roadside assistance doesn't mean it can always be relied upon when you need it. Cell's don't work everywhere. There are stretches of road with no services for 30, 40, 50 sometimes. If you choose to not learn how to do those things, fine, that's your right but it just gets under my skin when people get so proud, so high and mighty about their ignorance. And not even knowing how to change a wiper blade? That's just lazy.

It's an international discussion forum, not a local chatroom or pickup joint. 2) Blairgowrie don't lead with the information that you're extremely horny. You're male and 23, that's much a given, and it's not the kind of bait that most girls are going to be enchanted by. 3) What does "modestly attractive" mean? Are you trying to say the fat and semi-homely girls shouldn't be discouraged from stepping up, because you're so horny and lonely you'll settle for nearly any female attention? 4) For that matter, what does "non thrill seeking" mean? You don't want girls who are into motorcycles or amusement park rides? 5) Most people don't meet their significant others in bars and clubs. I don't know where that myth got started. Try for activity groups of all kinds. Think up a non-nerdy non-sexual interest you have that also interests girls in the right age range, join a suitable group, and expand your social circle. Every new person you meet improves your odds of meeting the right girl eventually, especially if you're enjoying life at the time, and not too specifiy goal-oriented about getting laid that minute. Thanks for the advice. I know that everyone is different, but its still nice to hear from others. I have not been to my local lgbtq center before, but I know that one is nearby. Maybe I'll stop by and what is offered. I do have friends and a few nonrelatives who know my preferences, so I'm not totally alone. I actually came out last evening to a reverend friend last night, because something came up in conversation and I felt like being honest. It was well received and it got me to thinking that my life would probably be happier if I just stopped hiding parts of myself to people in my life.