difference. A clitoris is more like the tip (very sensitive) than the shaft. Use whatever tricks you used to use for the tip. Everybody is different and if you already know how to figure out if different guys like what Walnut bottom PA milf personals you are doing you can figure out if different women like what you are doing. Orgasm tends to be better for women but also less of a sure thing for women so it really puts women on edge if men keep asking "Did you come yet?". It's too much pressure. But aside from that one onerous question talking and communicating is good. You're looking at a longer time frame. Spend an extra 5 minutes doing anything than you would with men. It's going to take longer to get to the plateau but once you are up there she's going to be up there for a while. With guys you have to worry more them coming too, it being less enjoyable and the whole thing being over fast so a lot of people like to "edge" guys. With women you can think of a first orgasm as laying the groundwork. I don't think edging is as good an idea with women. But like I said it doesn't always happen every single time so don't put pressure on yourself or her, just have fun. Men like repetition, lots of bobbing up and down. Women like more variation. But you need a mix of repetition and variation. You want to keep moving to different areas and doing different things but when something seems to be working stay on that spot. Use fingers. Probably two. Make sure your nails are trimmed and filed. But ass is off limits until you've slept with someone at least a week unless they say otherwise. There are main types of orgasm: vaginal, clitoral and a combination of the two (some people also have cervical or anal ones but that's a side topic). I think the combination approach is best because some people find plain clitoral stimulation numbing and for some people vaginal stimulation alone not get the job done. So you want to concentrate on both areas. Fingers AND tongue. This book is kind of lame but not totally useless: