They use anything against you, to get what they want. The fuck lawyers tell these people to married seeking fuck do that shit, so they do. In DIVORCE ya gotta wise the fuck up IT IS THE IS GONE DO NOT BE FUCKCING NICE DO NOT EXPECT YOUR EX TO BE FUCKING NICE EXPECT TO GET FUCKED KNOW YOU ARE GONNA GET FUCKED ASSUME THE SHIT, SO YOU DO NOT GET FUCKED. Sucks, yup, fair no, happens, all the fucking time. The lawyers that shit, cause they get to more hours, they can feel off right said of assholes. They courts do not give a fuck, just want to get you in, and get you out. They get paid no matter what the fuck happens to you. The fucking scum slept with her the night before, she got her fucking papers, and he pulls her past AA shit on her. Let her get hit with that shit blinside. WHAT A FUCK NOW THERE IS A FUCKING GUY, THAT BEGS FOR THE BULLET. That shit is not right. Her AA shit only helps her he is not going to get custody based on that fucking shit, if she is clean and working a program, they cannot use that fucking shit to take her. Get her to a lawyer, and get ready for a fight. The fucking scum uses that, to go after custody, fucking shit scum bag. She has got to stay clean, no slips on this shit right now, bad itme, if she does, and she needs to stay close to her support group, and get a lawyer to fight her side. He blindsided her, hoping he get her to slip and drunk up again. I watched my brother go through the same thing, his ex pulled that shit on him, it was total bullshit. My heart goes out to her.