to take protective measures? You really should ask him to give his blessings on a background check. If his new, revised story has truth to it, I'd think he'd be very understanding. If he isn't, I'd run like hot wife want nsa the wind. If you're not ready to do that, I'd suggest you at least keep a certain amount of autonomy. Please do not allow yourself to become completely dependent on this virtual stranger. And for goodness sake, pause on the making. please?