part 2 Pornography is addictive and unsatisfying as with most bitch want for sex addictions. It gives temporary pleasure that quickly fades into feels of self-loathing and the need for more. When your husband uses pornography he is basiy saying that you cannot satisfy his needs. He is saying that you are not woman enough to meet his manly needs. That should be an insult to you as a woman and to your womanhood. God built your body specifiy to attract, look beautiful to, and be pleasurable to your so that you would have, he would be attentive to your needs, and so you would live a life of happiness together. You have very specific parts of your body which are designed specifiy for this purpose. It is what makes you a woman and you need to assert your God-given right as a wife and a woman and take back your husband from this negative influence. Eventually he no longer "need" what God intended you as a woman to provide him. He feel no need or obligation to fulfill your needs. Both of you become unhappy. Both of you feel no need to stay with the other because your basic needs are not being met by one another. You then divorce. Satan feeds on the pain and conflict. You both sin searching among other lost souls for satisfaction and belonging that you never find. If you have, you likely fight over holidays, custody, and alimony with lawyers. Satan wins again and continues to win. You said that he has a high sex drive and wants you to do things that you are uncomfortable with. Acts that cause pain are sin. Acts of hostility in the marriage bed is a sin. SM, whips, handcuffs, chains have no place in a marriage bed. undergarments or night clothes are fine and you might find it fun to dress up and look beautiful for your husband in the bedroom to keep things interesting. I know some women enjoy this and there is nothing wrong with it. The high sex drive or very low sex drive can be a side-effect of the pornography use. Pornography is unsatisfying. No matter how much sex you give him it never be enough while he is using pornography. You must confront him on this. But there is a right way to do this. This is important, I have said it before so I repeat it again. end of part 2