Listen if you are both so fucking intellectual .you share deep and profound details sweet wives want sex about your past relationships that sound like dysfunctional to the average person! When did a break up ever sounded like a honeymoon? People who have great vocabulary and great intellect usually talk more or less like their therapy so maybe he overshared…TMI! I mean if anyone is smart, introspective enough to reflect and share the fails of last relationship it should sound dysfunction! What do the losers of know about this? If it sounds great hmmmmmmmm should not you stay? Also she is saying sounded dysfunctional .he did not! He shared his stories!! I bet his past is not so different from yours! Listen, you two are too anal sorry but you are you do not date much you are both loners and mate and get married! Simple. I know your type all over they are single and miserable or married and run the best business of marriage! Get over yourself. Be honest about your feelings. You have nothing to lose. If he becomes weirdoes well fuck you are not the first single girl who fucked a guy after hanging out for while! And realized what a douchebag he is. If it works out, sounds like a great relationship. If he is truly looking for a dump girl…wow!!! And could not find dozen already….wtf. Also you probably need a wake up too….your cerebral is little over active….start to masturbate and get rid of control! You DO NOT NEED TO PROVE YOU ARE INTELLECTUAL your life choices show this. So time to act like feminine and stop always upping up some poor guy! If you really believe your intellectuality, you do not need to wear it on your sleeves…and sometimes it is good to have OTHER HOBBIES!!!get into music or creative writing or something other than your work…HE BE TRYIGN TO SAY YOU ARE FUCKING BORING! And of course you became defensive and took it a slight on your -! Oooh poor girl….you need a hobby! Just live a little and live a lot!