Then yes. My ex and I met while I was refereeing a match her team was in. After the match was over, she said that she had seen lady wants flirt me at other competitions and thoguht I looked rather good at the sport. I said "thank you, I try" as I was falbberghasted that anyone had noticed me. She took that as being a cocky response and then added that she thought that she could "take me" as in beat me in competition. It was all over after that. I was invited by her coach and teammates to come to a practice the next evening. When I arrived the coach stopped all activities and refereed as my to be gf got her ass handed to her in front of all of her teammates. It was the beginning of a fun nearly 2 year relationship!