Hello all, Back when I first began experimenting (around ), it seemed like it was easier to find dominate men. Lately I notice that I'll place an ad and it seems like guys have figured out there are more subs than Doms and that by labeling themselves as a dom they've found a way to ensure meeting more guys than they normally would've. Oh, some of them do their homework and know exactly what to say. It's happened twice that I'll show up to guy's place and he's more interested in sucking me off in a pair of women's panties and isn't a dom at all. I've learned to ask all the right questions and flush out the liars before we actually meet. This one guy replied to an ad I placed and told me he wanted to put me in lace panties and have me worship his feet. I was into it but I kept getting a strange vibe. We talked on the phone and he seemed genuine but then I asked him for more of himself and sure enough, he sent me of himself in panties and high heels. LOL Not that I'm judging but it's like why even write an ad specifying what you're looking for anymore? It's frustrating! I just want to find a stocky mature Dom who enjoys cum feeding, verbal humiliation, foot worship, orgasm control . and more, as we get to know one another. Wasn't very hard 5 years ago. I found a guy (who is now in a committed relationship with a live in slave) who was into all this and more. A kind masculine bear of a who had a deliciously naughty kinky side.