you have a power struggle over birth control. It's easy to trash your partner for not wanting to wear a condom. Yes, he can be accused of being massively selfish and inconsiderate. And maybe he is At the moment, I don't feel the need to trash him. I'm female, but I'm sure I'd get sick of the rhythm method. I can easily imagine it causing problems. And little resentments over sex easily turn into big resentments. So the way I it you're both faced with the option of breaking up OR finding a birth control method that works for BOTH of you. Even if you were to have a, this issue wouldn't die. You'd still be fertile and he'd still be sick of condoms. I don't you two resolving it. You blame him. I suspect he blames you. Birth control incompatibility is wrecking your relationship and I doubt either of you give in. So stick a fork in it. Find a who really, really likes condoms and won't get sick of them after a couple years. Any sex resentment you and your partner have now get far worse after you have a.

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