You're gonna have to be patient and help unravel at least some 1) When was your last date (of the romantic type, not with you dentist, unless you find tooth-scraping a real turn on)? horny wife want flirt In February.. 2) Was it with someone new, or an established girlfriend (or boyfriend for the bi-women here) We were friends for a little while, and were just venturing into the dating stage. 3) Who paid? Is who pays an issue for either of you? I did, at the time she didn't have a job. 4) Where'd you go, what'd ya do? Thai dinner, then went to a play.. The rest I won't delve into, but it turned into a really unpleasant evening and now I'm off dating for a while. Being alone can be so much easier. Frankewing of those problems before you can expect to get laid. To start with, is there anyone local (a neighbor or colleague) you can swap babysitting with, in order to get some privacy and sleep for a few hours now and then with no cash cost? could be she just dont like it. I am not a fan of eating hagis.. but they enjoy it in Scotland. I do enjoy eating sauerkraut, but not everyone likes fermented cabbage thats pickled in its own brine. You came online asking advice of people from all over the world for advice on something VERY local and personal to you! you might as well ask us to guess her fav colour and how coins she has in her purse?! Really you have the best insight into her.. not us.. to get offended and insulting when told that is wrong. Are you this rude and blunt with her? maybe she is losing her attraction to you if you are a jerk when not behind a keyboard BTW you are welcome for the responses :) Next time you ask something be prepared for the variety of answers you get!