volunteer for an transfer. It might even earn you a promotion. do this these days. Yes, are in the same boat. wives who never earn/pay mortgage but the house is in their name. Listen, these women are NOT stupid. I know from experience these have parties where they discuss these things. Plus your wife apparently took the step of having an affair when things were a little rough with you, which is in practice pretyt unuusual for an INidan woman. Shows she has the guts to out things against you. If needed she be happy to cut off your b*lls, so do not give a single clue. A wife whom I know precipitaged hubby's anger and finally got the guy under a few shots fo vodka and stuff, and somehow made a fake affair case and got him to shout at her and slap her all of which was recorded (she trapped him over a week and one slap finaly) and she had already drained all accounts etc. before. He is penniless now, fighting the wifebeating charge. so they can be tricky, do not for a moment think a housewife from cannot be crooked. The affair and her coldness to you shows that she never was attracted to you, and was marrying just a resume. Why not people take up jobs they have NO passion for just for the paycheck right? Even if these women have to do the occasional rubberdoll routine, it's lifelong employment! Really, if these girls remain in, they have little prospects at employment or such. Literally these girls are raised to someone as a career, not for. Anyway, ask for a move to from your employer, and move. If you like working in the US, assumign you have a USCitizenship, you cna always come back. You can sell the house, etc.